Love dwells among people who see each other as reflections of The Creator
Love is absolutely ‘Blissful’ and ‘Divine’ provided it is true and pure. However, true love is rare and the beings that are blessed with it experience multidimensional (mental, emotional, and spiritual) growth. These beings tend to rise beyond the boundaries set for the human beings. This happens when the love strikes between two souls — over and above the levels of doubt and judgment; and beyond physical parameters.
The phrase ‘falling in love’ is the most widely used expression for the people who fail to understand the intensity of this divine emotion. Love, I believe, is one of the most underestimated and incorrectly interpreted emotions showered on mankind.
We come across an innumerable number of people claiming to be madly in love with. Unfortunately, the bond they share or the feelings they maintain for each other; more often than not are the result of infatuation or a temporary physical attraction.
Furthermore, what is being emphasized as love is often a conditional and adulterated symbiotic relationship, which is nurtured as per the convenience of either both or one of the partners for physical and emotional gratification. Hence, when the expectations are not fulfilled, this so-called Love tends to fall apart and the relationship gets transformed into a compulsion.
What is being emphasized as love is often a conditional and adulterated symbiotic relationship
‘Falling’ in love is associated with expectations and greed, while one rises in love if there is a passion to keep the other being happy without any expectation. A beautiful blooming flower attracts people in large numbers. The one who falls in love with the flower plucks it. But, the one who truly loves the flower nurtures it by watering the same.
This nurturer makes an effort to maintain the beauty of the flower because he understands that flower once plucked will not sustain for a longer period of time. So it’s true when all is said and done, grief is the price one pays for ‘FALLING in love’.
It is absolutely impossible to be indifferent or maintain the feeling of apathy towards an individual you have ever truly loved
When you ‘Fall’ in Love, you are prone to fall several times with different people; but, when you ‘Rise’ in love, you rise higher and higher only with that one special being. True love is nothing short of devotion, and it never ceases to exist regardless of the circumstances.
It is absolutely impossible to be indifferent or maintain the feeling of apathy towards an individual you have ever truly loved. One cannot un-love; if the Love has been real and unconditional. Thus, the concept of love happening twice or thrice does not make sense at all.
There can never be conditions associated with Love, and if there are conditions; then it is not ‘Love’. It should be better termed as a transaction or as I mentioned earlier – A Symbiotic Relationship for mutual benefits.